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(LOS ANGELES, CA) -- I saw where Joe Nieuwendyk retired
the other day.
Beyond the Hall of Fame statistics (his 564 goals
currently ranks 19th all-time in league history paired
with 562 assists) and three Stanley Cup rings (earned
with Calgary, Dallas and New Jersey), the 40-year-old
native of Oshawa, Ontario is one of the special men ever
to have strapped on the skates.
Yes, he is a very intelligent man, one of the few Ivy
League grads (Cornell) to play in the NHL, but what
makes him a rare breed is how he carried himself off the
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When I grow tired of bad guys like Brett Hull, Tie Domi, Sean
Avery and their antics, what brings me back to the reason why
I cover this game are guys like Nieuwendyk.
This column will not be about who scored when and who is
beating whom, but anecdotes about why three NHL players have a
special meaning to me.
ONE MAN ALONE
The Dallas Stars visited Staples Center late in the 2001-02
season and were pasted by the Los Angeles Kings. After the
game, the Stars' locker room was silent. The silence was
broken by Brett Hull, who angrily cursed at the small media
gathering, telling them he had nothing to say.
And then Joe Nieuwendyk entered the room.
For the next
twenty minutes, Joe stood in the middle of dressing room and
quietly answered every question put at him; the class he
demonstrated was rarely among any pro athlete in any sport. He
never raised his voice, even when criticizing his team for
their poor play. I was amazed at the calm resonating from his
voice and had wish Mr. Hull had taken note.
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WHATEVER IT TAKES
For those of you that have not followed my NHL writing
career over the past decade, you may not know that I
lost a son to a terminal genetic illness called Tay-Sachs
disease.
My son,
Taylor, lived for only 4 ½ years and suffered greatly;
he never walked or talked and had frequent seizures.
During Taylor's short life, I started a charitable
foundation to help raise awareness about this
devastating disease.
My
family resided in New York at the time, so I had the
notion to produce a public service announcement with a
metropolitan area athlete and there was really only
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As Tay-Sachs is indigenous to primarily Jewish families, I
decided to have Mathieu Schneider as our spokesperson. At the
time, Schneider played for the New York Islanders and is one
of the few Jewish players ever to play in the NHL. After
discussing matters with the Islanders' PR department, we drove
out to Nassau Coliseum to tape the PSA. After an Islanders'
spirited practice, Mathieu met us in the bowels of the arena
and we proceeded. My son was tired from the drive and wasn't
awake for most of the taping, but Mathieu was happy to read
from hand written cue cards and did about a dozen takes before
we were done.
Although Taylor was in a wheelchair and it was a difficult
taping logistically, Mathieu gave us his biggest smile and his
sincerity shined throughout, never once complaining that we
were taking too much of his time. Though the PSA aired briefly
because Mathieu was traded shortly afterward to Toronto, I owe
him a debt of gratitude that can never be repaid.
NEVER FORGET
I got to know Martin Brodeur during the summer of the Devils
first Stanley Cup championship. There were many parties in
northern New Jersey and a great friend of mine, John Artinian,
plugged me in to the Devils' network.
Subsequently, I moved to Hackensack, NJ in a high-rise that
Martin and his family already resided in.
Like Mathieu, Martin got to meet and know Taylor, he autograph
a poster for him and autographed one of his practice sticks.
In the subsequent years, whenever I saw Martin he always gave
me a big hello. I know that he was unfaithful to his wife
Melanie and his public divorce was messy, but all I know of
the man is that he was always kind to my family.
Recently, the Devils visited the west coast for the first time
since 2003 and I was covering the Kings-Devils match just
after Thanksgiving. The Kings won in a shootout and I was
waiting around for some quotes.
After losing the shootout, Brodeur was getting dressed in a
small room off the main locker room and strode a couple of
times back and forth throughout the room. He stopped and did a
double take, stuck out his hand, smiled and said, "How are you
doing," with a big sincere smile. "I'm doing great, I'm down
to my playing weight," was my response as we both laughed. I
had not seen him in three years and he remembered me as if it
was yesterday that we last met.
So when your teams goes through the motions and you think they
are overpriced millionaires athletes (which they are), never
forget that there are some special men that still play this
game.
Dennis
Bernstein, the man behind SCORE! Media, is a columnist for
TheFourthPeriod.com and the Los Angeles Correspondent for The
Fourth Period Magazine.
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